env-util: replace unsetenv_erase() by new getenv_steal_erase() helper

env-util: replace unsetenv_erase() by new getenv_steal_erase() helper

The new helper combines a bunch of steps every invocation of
unsetenv_erase() did so far: getenv() + strdup() + unsetenv_erase().
Let's unify this into one helper that is harder to use incorrectly. It's
in inspired by TAKE_PTR() in a way: get the env var out and invalidate
where it was before.