sd-bus: do not connect to dbus-1 socket when kdbus is available

 sd-bus: do not connect to dbus-1 socket when kdbus is available

We should not fall back to dbus-1 and connect to the proxy when kdbus
returns an error that indicates that kdbus is running but just does not
accept new connections because of quota limits or something similar.

Using is_kdbus_available() in libsystemd/ requires it to move from
shared/ to libsystemd/.

Based on a patch from David Herrmann:
  https://github.com/systemd/systemd/pull/886