resolved: unify code for trying a different DNS server

resolved: unify code for trying a different DNS server

Let's unify some code, and add a common implementation of a function
that checks whether we have tried all DNS servers yet, and retries the
transaction if we don't. We already use this same code twice. Let's use
it at some other places too now — basically all cases where we switch to
a new server — with the one case of packet loss, where we too switch
servers, but don#t care how many times we already tried to switch.