sd-device: optimize addition of already present matches

sd-device: optimize addition of already present matches

Our hashmap and set helpers return a different code whenever an entry
already exists, so let's use this to avoid unsetting scan_uptodate when
not necessary.

Thus, the return convention for
sd_device_enumerator_add_match_subsystem,
sd_device_enumerator_add_match_sysattr,
sd_device_enumerator_add_match_property,
sd_device_enumerator_add_match_sysname,
sd_device_enumerator_add_match_tag,
device_enumerator_add_match_parent_incremental,
sd_device_enumerator_add_match_parent,
sd_device_enumerator_allow_uninitialized,
device_enumerator_add_match_is_initialized
is that "1" is returned if action was taken, and "0" on noop.